your neutered friend and his bochup owner? 
i just met him for lunch and he told me what happened
she was looking at the photo of her evening dress for the
wedding, then she said it didn't turn out how she wanted it to
be
she asked him if he remembers how she wants it to look
originally
he said that he don't know
that's where she complain that he make time to go jamming but
never put the wedding as a top priority.
so he kena "banned" but just now he said that he will find ways
to continue jamming
i tell him that he never jam when she is around, so even if she
ban him, he go jamming she oso dunno what
